By the end of July, I knew I was in dire need of a break from my real life. Not that there's anything bad going on, it's just been a very busy year for me and I could tell that I'm spiraling into burnout. I needed, for sanity sake, to get the heck out of Dodge soon. Because Fall is coming, and with that is a whole bunch more stuff to juggle, care for, attend in person, and otherwise keep my nose to the grindstone while possibly being called in on sick-grandchild-home-from-school (or retrieve from school) care at any moment.
No more waiting and hoping to catch a break. I had to make one. The simpler, the better, and more likely to come to pass. So I gave it some thought and came up with my target idea.
Goal: to go look at pretty rocks in the water and not have to think about keeping anyone entertained or safe from drowning.
In other words, no family members could tag along or otherwise be invited if they weren't capable of being totally self sufficient. Because other than a trip away with DH last September, all my away from home 'down time' has included grandkids, or was some sort of necessary home care business item (running up north to get a new dishwasher from DH's friend with the appliance store) and that's just not relaxing to me.
Based on a tip from a friend who also likes to look at pretty rocks in the water (and bring some home), I decided that Lakeport State Park, in Michigan's Thumb, was the destination. Truthfully, I had an exact place I've been wanting to go to for the last several years, but it's too far away (500 miles, up in the Keweenaw) to be a feasible trip this year (or last year, or the year before. . .) So, the Thumb it was, since that's close enough--only a couple of hours from this little place here--to drive to and back all in the same day.
I picked two options of days in August, looked into possibilities for horse care on either of those two days, nailed down the day, and booked my horse feeding and stall cleaning body double (aka DD2). The date was now written in stone on my calendar. No cancellations, no postponements. It was a hill I'd die on if necessary. My surviving the rest of 2025 really did depend on me being able to get away ASAP.
I decided DH could come along, if he wanted, especially if he was willing to drive. I've never had good night vision and hate driving at night, so if he was willing to be the driver, I could comfortably stay away longer and get home after dark.
In all honesty, I'll confess that I very hesitantly invited him to join me because he's great at inviting others along (even when he knows I'm not wanting company) and then telling me we're not actually going to be alone only when it's too late to back out. Remember, having others along was absolutely NOT the focus of this needed break.
This past Sunday was the day reserved for this event. I planned and packed a lunch plus snacks, as well a list of items we needed to bring, and DH and I left for the east side of the state right after church that morning. It was kind of a coolish, cloudy, and windy day (and silly me who absolutely gets cold in the wind forgot to pack any pants or a long-sleeved shirt or jacket), but that worked out pretty well. The beach was fairly empty for at least the first half of the time we were there.
Even though we'd both brought bathing suits, neither one of us actually put one on or went swimming. With the chilly-ish (low 70's) air, the water actually felt warm, but as soon as I stepped out of it, even only having been ankle to mid-calf deep, I was shivering. I told you I get cold in the wind. *shrug*
I spent several hours wading at the water's edge, occasionally getting splashed up to my waist by a particularly big wave (they were forecasted at 3'-6'). DH looked for a bit too, but mostly sat on driftwood logs and either looked for ships or looked at his phone.
I'm a really neophyte rockhound, I don't know a whole lot about the different types, what's rare, etc. So, when I look at pretty rocks in the water, I look for those that in some way speak to me. Be it color, pattern, whatever.
This particular beach I noticed lots with rings of color. That seemed to be the theme for the day. There were a few with spots, and several with fossils, and lots and lots of granite, but many had one or more rings. I'd get a bunch I liked, and take them to the log DH was seated on to show him, then set them on the log next to him and go back to see what else called my name. Eventually, I knew I had to pare down my finds and only take home a realistic number.
Below are pictures of the rocks that came to live at this little place here (plus a few as gifts for DD2, who did horse chores for me that afternoon so I could be gone).
After we decided we were done looking for rocks, and neither of us wanted to go for a swim, we left the beach and drove down into Port Huron. It was a little after four, and I didn't want to head for home yet, so we went downtown to the waterfront where there was a walking path and benches that you could sit and look at the water (which, at that point wasn't Lake Huron, it was technically the St. Clair River). On the other side of the water, not far at all, is Canada.
The first thing that caught my eye as we were looking for where to park, was a metal sculpture that looked like it could be a horse. So, of course, as soon as we had parked the car (we took Sweet Madame Blue on this excursion), that was where I headed.
It was located around a slight bend of the walking path, between the path and the river, and it was a horse! A life-sized scrap metal sculpture. Some person had recently picked some of the nearby goldenrod that was in bloom and stuffed it in the horse's mouth, making it look like the horse was grazing the brush.

We sat a bit, hoping to see freighters or other commercial ships in the water (this is part of the St. Lawrence Seaway), but we only saw a couple docked on the Canadian side, none actively traversing the water.
We did see a few Border Patrol and Coast Guard boats patrolling, and a cormorant that was busily fishing back and forth in our area.

Cormorant looking like a tiny Loch Ness Monster
While at the river, we looked up possible dinner places on DH's phone. There were a few that sounded really delicious, and fairly cheap (looking at the prices on their menu) until we noticed that they were on the other side of the river, in Canada. While we easily could have gone across (the Blue Water Bridge is in Port Huron), we decided an international crossing just for dinner probably wasn't the best use of our time, and we found good sounding food on the U.S. side instead. DH had wanted to go somewhere with a patio overlooking the water, so we ended up driving a few miles down to Marysville and eating at the Junction Buoy. It was good. And in the U.S., LOL.
After that we drove home into the setting sun, which constantly stabbed us in the eyes despite our sunglasses and the sun visors on the car. It was just low enough, other than the first 5-10 minutes, that the visors didn't extend low enough to block it out. Rather than taking backroads home for the scenic view, with our sun-glare limited vision, we decided not to risk the deer that would be plentiful in the evening on a country drive and just took the expressway instead.
And that was my day away. It was just what I needed. And I'm so glad I went, because the next day I got a text from DD2 asking if I could pick her kids up from school/the babysitter the following Monday so she could go to a dentist appointment after school/work. Grandma duty calls!