This is an old picture, because a) this is our truck DH hit the deer with and it is not broken in this picture, and b) there's no leaves on the trees. It's actually from late fall, if I do remember right. Anyway it was a while ago.
This Little Place Here
Random thoughts and experiences on my little piece of earth. Kids, gardening, chickens, heating with wood, hunting, food preservation and much more!
Tuesday, July 14, 2026
A Trash Story
Monday, July 6, 2026
Broken, Broken
It's been a long six days. There's the whole holiday weekend thing. But there's also been some unexpected mentally exhausting things (not that the holiday and social gatherings aren't all ready mentally exhausting enough for me).
Last week, during the heat wave we had, DH and DD1 decided to go up north and go canoeing/kayaking with her two oldest (Faline and Buck) as well as DS1's two oldest (K3 and Toad). It was going to be a head up north one evening, spend the night at the family cabin, go float the next morning/part of the afternoon the next day, possibly spend another night depending on a number of factors, and then head home kind of trip. DH wanted, since our truck is a 6-passenger kind, for all of them to ride together in one vehicle rather than taking two vehicles on a 400 mile round trip journey. In terms of expense, it would cut fuel costs roughly in half.
Luckily, logistics (and DD1) prevailed, and she drove herself and her kids separately from DH, K3 and Toad. This not only gave them a second vehicle to run the shuttle from put-in to take-out on the river with, but it avoided having three kids (two in car seats) crammed together in the backseat, with two overly large adults and a fourth kid (the unlucky skinniest teen/preteen) crammed together in the front seat for 200 miles of hot humid driving (even with air conditioning going) each way. Not to mention gave them room to keep their clothing and bedding bags inside the vehicle rather than putting all baggage in the open bed of the truck and hoping they didn't encounter pop-up thunderstorms to get everything wet along the way.
Well, they didn't encounter any thunderstorms on the way there (they did almost immediately after getting off the river and loading boats onto the trailer the following day). However, DH, along with K3 and Toad encountered a deer when they were about 45 minutes short of their destination the first night.
I got a phone call from DH about the time I expected him to be calling me with the "We're here" phone call he usually tries to give me when he's traveling without me, so that I know he's at his destination safely. Instead of hearing "we're here" though, what he said to me was "We hit a deer."
OH F---!
The world came to a screeching halt. My gut fell through the soles of my feet. The pre-sunset daylight went black.
"We're all okay." Was the next thing he said.
The sun shone again, if not quite as bright as it had five seconds before. My gut rose somewhere around my kneecaps. Because I was expecting the next statement I heard to be "Get in my (company) truck and come get us please." I knew that DD1 had left a few hours earlier than he had; they weren't caravaning, so wasn't there at the scene with him and the older two grandkids. Plus, hers is only a five passenger vehicle.
Instead, I heard "The airbags went off, the side ones, I cut them off so we can see, the truck seems to be fine mechanically, and we're on our way again. I called 911 but all the cops are busy elsewhere*, so they said it was okay to continue on and we'll do the police report in the morning."
*there aren't a whole lot of police officers in that rural part of northern Michigan, so it's not surprising that there wasn't one available to do a non-injury non-wrecked vehicle deer hit accident report. Probably busy with other, more serious deer/car accidents, honestly.
The deer had hit them near the passenger side front tire, dented both the doors on the passenger side, as well as cracked the passenger side headlight area, and dented the fender too. So, after describing to me the damage that DH had seen, he said aloud the thought that was in my head (which made my gut hit the ground again):
"The insurance company is probably going to total it, even though it looks like all somewhat minor cosmetic damage. Because the airbags went off. I think that's the policy these days; if the airbags deploy, the vehicle is too expensive to fix so they total it."
For the record, it's a 2017 truck, we've been the only owners, and it has only about 85,000 miles on it. It's in great condition--other than the current deer fiasco. We were not looking to replace it (and have a vehicle loan in roughly the $900-$1k a month range) in the next several years.
- Getting air? Seems to be. Blower/fan has been running continuously afterall.
- Got spark? Yep, can see the 'glowplugs' (not an open flame pilot light system) light up.
- Got fuel? Well, we have a recently filled propane tank outside, and the whole system had been checked (and pressure tested) by the fuel company just the day before. (Hmmm, something in relation to that testing????) Not to mention that both the (gas) dryer and the (gas) cooktop worked fine.
Friday, July 3, 2026
The Bear Trash Can (aka my recycling bin)
This post might get a little long, there's a story to tell. Bear with me. (Ha ha, you'll get the pun if you read all the way through.)
This is my "recycling bin". It is what I've put my recyclables into for over 20 years. We do not have curbside recycling out in the country where this little place here is located. We have to provide our own collection container and drive our recyclables to a transfer station or other recycling location (depending on what we are trying to recycle). As mentioned in this recent post.
Prior to being my recycling bin, it was our trash can. Around the time we finished building the house and moved into this little place here, most of the trash companies were getting out of bag pick-up and going to wheeled trash bins that they provided their customers. So my trash can became my recycling bin in the early 2000's.
About ten years prior to that; in 1991, DH and I purchased it (most likely from Pamida or Kmart, as those were the two housewares shopping options where we lived) when we moved to the U.P. (Upper Peninsula for you non-Michiganders and non-Sconnies). We kept it in our enclosed, but unheated, back porch in the first rental we lived in while DH was in college at the engineering college there. The second rental we lived in, his final year of college, did not have an enclosed porch. So we kept this trash can on the back deck of our mobile home which was situated on a corner of the landlord's farm, with woods about 50' from our back door.
The close proximity to the woods is important here. Because it's how the recycling bin got to be known as the Bear Trash Can in our family.
There were (and still are) black bears in that part of Michigan. Occasionally we'd see a bear on one of the dirt roads we drove on going to or from work (me) or classes (DH). Including the dirt road we lived on. More consistently, they could be spotted near the dumpsters behind the grocery store in town.
One night, in very early April 1993 (we remember the time frame because DS2 was born the second week of March that year, and he was not yet a month old), DH and I both were woken up from a sound sleep (remember, we had a newborn, so if we were actually asleep it was a pass out from exhaustion kind of sleep!) by what sounded like footsteps and heavy breathing in our living room.
He looked at me, and I looked at him, both wide-eyed in the darkness, and he said "Did you hear that?" To which I replied with a question and a request "Is somebody in the house? You get up and go check!"
With hearts hammering, I checked on DS2 asleep in basinette right next to the bed, and DH grabbed a baseball bat (why it was in our bedroom, I have no clue). He quietly slipped out of the bedroom, through the utility/laundry room that joined our added-on master bedroom to the rest of the mobile home, and peeked around the corner where the kithen was to his left and the living room to his right. Turning on lights as he went, he searched the living room, hallway, bathroom, DS1's little bedroom (where he was thankfully still asleep), then the kitchen last. He found no person in our home, even though he checked behind the shower curtain in the bathroom; we were both that sure we'd heard the breath and heavy footsteps of a human.
Sure now that there was no one in the home, DH stepped out onto the back porch and shone a flashlight around toward the driveway, looking for a person or a car. Seeing nothing but our own vehicles, he went back to bed where we rehashed what we'd heard. Eventually we both calmed down enough to get back to sleep, although I'm pretty sure there was a diaper change and feeding for DS2 first.
The next morning, DH went outside for something (I don't remember what, very possibly to drive to the college and go to class), but that's when he noticed our trash can was missing. It had been on the back deck the night before, and now was not there. In the daylight he could see much further than he had with the flashlight the night before, and he thought he could see a bit of blue out in the woods behind the house. So he walked out to investigate, and found our trash can.
As you can see in the picture at the beginning of this story, it has handles that latch down to hold the lid on. When DH found it, the lid was not on it anymore, and our trash was scattered around. That was odd.
Finding the lid, he picked it up to place it back on the trash can (he had gathered up all the trash that he could and put it in the can). That's when he noticed two punctures near one of the handles. Weird, but whatever.
Wednesday, July 1, 2026
Books Read in 2026: June
A Murder for the Books by Victoria Gilbert. I picked this one off the library shelf because the cover looked interesting. The blurb sounded like it might be good. And then I got it home, looked at the cover some more and thought "I think I've read this before". But, rereading the blurb, I wasn't sure if I had or if the storyline was just similar to a few others I've read in recent years. However, by Chapter Two I was predicting what would happen next, what 'new' character was about to come into the story--right down to their name, and I knew that yep, I have read this book. Well, into the DNF pile it went (although, technically if I read it all the way through in the past [covid times???] is it truly a Did Not Finish?) Like movies and TV shows, if I've read a book before it gets stored in some corner of my brain and then when I try to read/watch it again my brain goes "here, this is what's going to happen now and now and now, the end, let's think about something else shall we?" In other words, my concentration and enjoyment go out the window. Been there, done that, next!
The Secret History of Audrey James by Heather Marshall. I picked this one up at the spring book swap based on the blurb on the back of the book. Sounded like it could be interesting, depending on how it was done. It was alternately interesting, horrifying, somewhat frustrating (as in sometimes I felt the author was putting too many twists--character lifestyle wise--into the time period in question), a bit stale and trite, and I set it down, took a break, and picked it up again several times. I did finish it; about 2/3 the way through I thought I knew how it would end, what would be revealed in the final third, and so I did read it completely. Yes, I had figured it out. Overall, I think I did like the book and may possibly look up more from this author.
Eleanor Oliphant is completely fine by Gail Honeyman. Not sure where I first saw this book mentioned, but I ordered it from my local library. It sucked me in. What's that trite movie review quote? "I laughed. I cried." Very apt for this book. Entertaining and thought provoking (at least for me) at the same time. Two thumbs up.
Murder Unshelved by Vannetta Chapman. This is an author that I have read for years, mostly liking her murder mysteries more than her Amish fiction. This is her latest mystery (maybe the beginning of a new series?) If I may be blunt here, it was awful. Started out good, got a little questionable (Was it written by AI? By a high schooler? Was it editedn for content at all?) about a third of the way through and just past halfway I was so sick of the ever weakening writing that if it wasn't a short book I would have just set it down as a DNF. Instead I forged on to the end. But I don't think I will read another book by this author ever again.
How To Ride The Horse You Thought You Bought by Anne Buchanan. Another book I saw somewhere online and decided to see if I could borrow it from the library. While my local county library system didn't have it, I was able to get it via the statewide library interloan. So far, I've only read the first few chapters, which are very basic. Not to say they are lacking, but rather that after 40+ years with horses there wasn't anything in them I haven't known for a long long time. Hoping that further into the book there will be clear to understand descriptions of much more technical and difficult stuff (ie. perhaps new or stated in a new way to me) Everything so far has been written in an easy to understand format and with helpful illustrations.
Monday, June 29, 2026
Goodwill Treasures in June
The week DH was out of town, I rounded up some of our stuff that we don't use anymore, and also a bunch of DD2's stuff that moved back with her in 2024 that she has since decided she no longer wants/needs, and I took it to the local Goodwill. I had decided to stop debating the 'best' or 'most ethical' place to donate it to and just went with 'get this shit out of my house' and took it to Goodwill (which happens to be the closest and most convenient with drop-off times charity to this little place here).
Ahh, the joy that a now empty 12 square feet of floor space in my house brings me is immeasurable.
After I dropped off a literal floor to ceiling backseat of a pickup load of stuff to the rear door of Goodwill, I drove around front, parked and walked myself in the front door of Goodwill to see what I could see. You never know if you will find something useful or not, it's kind of like a treasure hunt. What thing that I actually need would they have for sale today?
Well, I found a new summer dress, which I don't have many of that fit anymore (lost weight and also toned up core muscles in the last 18ish months). I also found a few jigsaw puzzles. But my two big 'wins' are actually things that don't take up much space at all.
Browsing the housewares, I spied a small heart-shaped springform pan. I've had a hankering for cheesecake for literally months, but haven't made one because DH and I surely don't need to eat that much of a rich dessert in a few days and I wouldn't want any of it to go bad. Neither have I, really, wanted to invite extra people over just so I can share cheesecake, and all the planned family gatherings haven't worked out for me to have the time immediately beforehand to make a cheesecake.
But with this little cheesecake pan, I could cut down a recipe to be just enough for two people to not overindulge in calories or have to endure unnecessary company. Not only that, the sticker was the color of the week, which meant this little gem was a mere $1.24!! WIN! Into my cart it went.
So when I spied this little (8-inch) ceramic frying pan on the shelf in Goodwill, I grabbed it for closer examination. It appeared to be very lightly used, if at all. I could find no scratches on it. Maybe a very slight discoloration from beind heated and used a time or two, but it was so faint I couldn't say for sure.
Saturday, June 27, 2026
Dad's Socks
It has been several years since I made my Dad any knit socks. This spring, since I was knitting a pair of socks for my Mom to surprise her with for Mother's Day using some of the free Zauberball yarn she had gotten for me, I decided it was nigh time to make my Dad a new pair of socks also.
He has wool allergies, so I wouldn't be using any of the Zauberball for him, even though there are several skeins of it in manly colors. Instead, I dug into my stash of cotton fingering that I bought in the past just for him. I pulled out two colors: Doe and Marlin, intending to do contrasting cuffs, heels and toes.
Well, I got distracted when I was casting on and grabbed the Doe (main color) instead of the Marlin, and had knit the entire cuff before I realized my mistake. I was using the Deflect pattern, which is rather more involved of a cuff than I typically have on sock patterns, and I wasn't about to tear it all out and start again in the intended (contrast) color. So I 'personalized' the socks by doing only contrasting heels and toes, LOL.
I have knit this pattern before, without adding in any contrasting yarn parts, so I was confident I could adapt the pattern for them despite my screwing up of the cuff color. What I didn't fully realize was that I was heading into the busy growing/gardening/riding/being-outside-all-the-time season and that this somewhat complicated pattern might not be the best project to try to do and have finished by Father's Day.
And it wasn't. I got sock #1 finished in April.Things were still looking good for my Father's Day deadline at that point. But the second sock, well, it was delay after delay after delay from early May on in terms of finding time to work on it. The week before Father's Day arrived, and I was only halfway through the (men's size 10) foot. I thought maybe, if I pushed, I could get it done in time. I looked at the plethora of tasks with my name on them, and stressedover how, exactly, to push knitting that sock.
One week before Father's Day
Then, two days later, I had a revelation in three parts:
- I wasn't going to be seeing my Dad on Father's Day itself.
- He had no clue (and neither did anyone else) that I was knitting him socks for a present (most years I don't get my parents presents).
- I would be seeing him the Saturday after Father's Day and could surprise him with socks then.
Thursday, June 25, 2026
Aunt L's Cookies
For over three decades, there has been an annual family reunion on DH's father's side of the family. And, until the last six or so (because she's in her late 70s now), one of his aunts always made and brought hundreds of cookies to share. They are simply known as "Aunt L's Cookies" because nobody else in the family makes them.
(And because she made literally hundreds of them, nobody else ever brought cookies to the family reunions, LOL.)
Thankfully, around 2010, someone compiled a family cookbook (of submitted favorite recipes), and the recipes for both of Aunt L's special cookies was included. So, once in a very long while, I have made them myself for eating at home with my family.
It's been a long, long time though, since I had made either one. Since this year I am trying to make lots of different cookies and not the same old three or four recipes over and over again, I thought what a great excuse to take the extra time that Aunt L's cookie recipes require and make those.
First up, her Magic Peanut Butter/Chocolate cookies
Dough:
1 1/2 cups flour
1/2 cup cocoa
1/2 tsp baking soda
Combine above ingredients and set aside.
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup brown sugar
1/2 cup softened margarine (or butter)
1/4 cup peanut butter
Beat these together until fluffy, then add:
1 tsp vanilla
1 egg
Then add flour mixture and mix thoroughly, then set aside.
Make the filling:
3/4 cup peanut butter
3/4 cup powdered sugar
Blend well
To make the cookies, divide both filling and dough into 32 balls each. Assemble by flattening a chocolate dough ball in the palm of your hand and place a filling ball on top, wrappinng the chocolate dough around the filling. Place on a cookie sheet and flatten with the bottom of a glass dipped in sugar. Bake at 375 degrees for 7-8 minutes.






















