This cute face (and the rest of it's body) moved in this week. It's been such a maybe/maybe not situation I didn't want to post about it until it actually happened.
Last Summer, DH and I started talking, in the future tense, about getting a horse or large pony that would be calm and safe enough that the grandkids could ride it. Eventually the Poetess will be able to take a much less experienced rider than myself, but she's rather tall (and potentially scary) for small kids. What I needed was a been there done that unflappable gelding of moderate height. Not so small he'd be outgrown quickly, but not as tall as the Poetess.
DH wanted me to get a fourth client horse in residence first. With one stall completely taken up with tools, materials, and storage of stuff while the tack room was being SLOWLY built, and nowhere in the interim to have a new boarder store their sadde & bridle, brushes, etc. I told him the tack room needed to be completed before I advertised for another boarder.
In the meantime, I started scouting online for a potential grandkid horse, not with the intention of purchasing right away, but more trying to get a feel for what's out there currently and what the price range is for something that checked my necessary boxes on personality, training, and (extremely) low maintainence. Probably in its teens. I didn't want something that was so been there done that it required hock injections or daily medications for arthritic old (or highly worn and torn) joints. And perferrably a horse with good feet that wouldn't require shoes. It didn't have to be a gelding, but with the mare drama between Alpha mare personality Poetess and 'I also want to be the Alpha mare' Little Black Mare, I was hesitant to even consider adding a (nonpaying) mare to the barn.
I envisioned a nice mid-size Quarter Horse gelding. Your stereotypical derpy, go along with anything, put any rider on him, not cause trouble in the barn or pasture, guy. He didn't have to have a show ring background. I'm not sure any of the grandkids will ever get into showing, and, honestly, when I see what the Western Pleasure show circuit horses move like these days, I don't want a horse that's been trained to move like a cripple just so their rider doesn't bounce. (Sorry, not sorry, for my bluntness if any readers happen to currently be part of that fad. That's NOT how Western pleasure horses moved in the 1980s/early 1990s when I was still showing Western and Hunt Seat, it's not how they naturally move unsaddled, and I'm not buying into it.)
Anyhoo. . .
Because we hadn't completed the tack room until recently, and that 'tool/storage' stall hasn't been totally relieved of duty yet, I haven't advertised for a fourth boarding client horse. Which meant, in my mind, and because I hadn't much saved up for buying a horse, that I wasn't shopping for that grandkid horse yet.
But apparently God had a horse for my grandkids. Not just any horse. A mid-sized been there done that, low maintainence fairly derpy Quarter Horse gelding. In the stereotypical QH gelding orange, er, chestnut, color. Or sorrel if you're Western folk (as it was explained to me back in 1991, if you ride English it's a chestnut. If you ride Western, it's a sorrel. Exact same color, more of a dialectual thing than a difference in coat color.)
Hopefully this isn't all ready a TL,DR post, because it's about to get longer.
In January, I got a call one morning from DS1 asking if I could go pick K3 up from school; he'd gotten a call from the school office that she was sick and needed to go home. He was at work, Two-Ees was working from home but in a meeting and couldn't leave at the moment. Could I please go get K3 from school and drop her off at their house? I was out in the barn, dressed for work on planet Hoth in my full Carhartt regalia (insulated bibs and coat) plus clunky insulated waterproof boots, knit hat and thick insulated leather work gloves, but I said I could run and get her, hopefully she wouldn't be embarassed by being seen with me in my barn gear.
The embarassing barn gear is a key element in this tale. Because while I was waiting in the school office, the secretary asked me what kind of animals I had (due to my obvious winter farm gear). When I said horses, she said "you must have really clean stalls; I can't even smell you." A huge compliment. Because, IFYKY, clothing that is regularly in the barn takes on a certain smell, especially if your animal husbandry practices are a tad lacking. To not smell horse barn on my presence in all those pounds of winter clothing was indeed a testament to my (highly anal retentive) barn management skills.
Then she proceeded to tell me that her daughter has a horse, but they were thinking of selling it because, since she got her driver's license last summer, the daughter has lost interest in riding. Of course, given that info, I mentioned that, while we weren't shopping yet, we were thinking about buying a nice beginner-safe horse for K3 and the other grandkids to ride. The secretary asked for my phone number, in case they did decide to sell the horse, and I obviously gave it to her. Because what did either of us have to lose?
A month went by. . . And in late February I got a text from the school secretary saying they were probably going to put the daughter's horse up for sale, would I like some info on him? Uh, yes, yes I would. She sent me more texts, and several pictures and videos of her daughter riding the horse (from past summers). I asked a bunch of qualifying questions. We set up a tentative date in March (since I was about to leave for vacation with DH) for me and K3 to come see the horse and for me to get a better idea of if he might work for what I had in mind.
While on vacation, that date got moved back, at the secretary's request, due to weather and some other things they had going on. We picked a date about three days after the original. That date came and it was windier than windy.
K3 and I went to see the horse, but, since it hadn't been ridden all winter (and hardly at all the summer before), the ground was pretty wet,the only place they had to ride was their yard or the side of the road, and it was super windy (horses are always silly in high winds) we opted not to test ride that day. I checked him out in every other way than riding him, though, and was fairly interested in him. When asked what price they were thinking of for him, the daughter gave me one and the mom immediately said a price $500 higher. I told them I'd like to come back another day, after the daughter had had a chance to ride him a few times, and then ride him and perhaps have K3 ride him. Also that I would have to speak with my husband on the price as we hadn't really saved up that much yet, not having intended on buying a horse quite so soon. As we parted ways, they said they'd contact me in a week or so after the daughter had ridden a few times.
Two weeks went by without a word. Then, suddenly a text wanting to know if I still wanted to come ride him or not. Yes, we did, so a day and time was set up for riding. On that day, once we were there, they weren't sure they wanted to sell. Daughter wanted to keep him and show him at the county Fair in the summer. I rode him briefly anyway, and so did K3. He seemed to be a calm and willing horse overall (if you looked past him being kind of 'up', which is common in horses who've been out of work for a long time and also with unfamiliar riders). I told them that if they sold him to me, I would be open to allowing the daughter take him to the Fair and also riding him once or twice a week between the date of sale and the Fair. Then brought up price, as we could, maybe, meet the price the daughter quoted but not the Mom's price. Especially as Mom seemed to now want to adjust her price even further upward than her original price. Left with both parties going to 'think about it' and get back to each other.
I went home, talked to DH, and came up with what he and I felt was a reasonable offer that we could afford. Texted the Mom the next day after work asking her to call me. She replied that she'd call in a little bit, they were getting ready to head out on vacation for Spring Break.
Four days later, she texted me and then we spoke on the phone. They now wanted to keep the horse and not sell until after the Fair. Then she went on to say how much more than the price she'd quoted me they could list the horse for sale online for. I'll save you the whole fifteen minute conversation, but I gave her the options DH and I had come up with--the price we could pay in cash now, me taking on the cost of the spring vaccinations and coggins (saving them several hundred dollars) if they sold him to me this Spring, and how the daughter would still have use of him--at my farm--between now and the Fair and be able to show him at the Fair. It seemed like a win-win option to me. But the Mom was focused on the cash, and the tone wavered from $x amount, firm, to not going to sell him until end of Summer. She said they'd talk about my offer and call me back in a few days, later in their Spring Break trip.
Not a word for over a week. I figured that was that, they weren't going to sell him to me. I started intensely looking online for horses for sale within 100ish miles of me that might be a good fit for my pocketbook and the grandkids use. Even told K3 that I was sorry, it didn't look like that horse was going to be for sale afterall.
And then, on the ninth day, a text saying they'd decided to sell him now. Daughter would not be showing at the Fair afterall. If I wanted him to let them know, otherwise they were going to list him online. ARGH!
Again, I'll paraphrase the conversation for the sake of brevity. We haggled on a price. We haggled on how he would get to this little place here, as neither of us own a horse trailer, and whose responsibility it would be to transport him. I consulted DH at work. Haggled with the owner some more. Came to an agreement on price (very close to what they insisted they would sell him for before Mom started raising her price quote) and agreed they would be responsible for delivering him at their own expense (if they needed to rent a trailer.) Agreed on a delivery date.
Well, there were a few more bumps in the road, but he finally arrived late in the evening on Monday. I'm glad to have all that done with.
He seems to be settling in well. The grandkids are all eager to come ride him, but I told them he needs a few days to settle in, then I'll ride him a couple of times to make sure he's calm and comfortable here and then they can get on him. He needs to put on probably around 200 pounds of weight, as he came off the winter rather thin. But he seems to be put together well.
So, meet Jedi, our new horse. A 15 year old Quarter Horse gelding. He's orange. He's about 15.2 hands. He's calm. He's derpy. The Poetess seems to think he's an okay roommate, being in the stall next to hers, and he seems to be quite happy to let her have ownership of the wall between their stalls (unlike when the LBM had the stall next to Poetess). I think this is going to work well. I'm pretty sure God had a hand in this all along.
Now I need to get that other stall totally emptied of it's tools, etc. DH needs to get the shelving built that will go around two or three walls of the tack room at approximately 7' high for totes of things (currently in the 'extra' stall) to be stored on. And then I need to put up advertisements on a lot of horse related local online groups and get that fourth boarder horse found and on track to move in this Spring or early Summer.















































